Long term relationships are not the stuff of fairy tales. “Happy ever after” is a lovely dream but isn’t most people’s reality. For all sorts of reasons relationships go through good and bad times. During the bad times couples counselling can be a very effective way of getting the relationship back on an even keel. However it takes commitment, time and a willingness to change. I believe it’s well worth it.
I will begin by listening to both of you. I will not take sides. I will aim to help you to listen to each other, explore what is going on, and offer my knowledge and experience to help you find healthier ways of relating to one another.
I cannot promise you a happy ending but making the effort to improve your relationship is definitely a valuable investment.